i was born on the year of the ox to qoute:

"People born in the Year of the Ox are patient, speak little, and inspire confidence in others. They tend, however, to be eccentric, and bigoted, and they anger easily. They have fierce tempers and although they speak little, when they do they are quite eloquent. Ox people are mentally and physically alert. Generally easy-going, they can be remarkably stubborn, and they hate to fail.

i had few tenths of close friends who stood by me through all these years. i must say they are few. my eccentric nature had withdrawn others to befriend me. i must say that being one had never brought me laughter. it is in contrary instead. i know that if they are a true friend they would love me for who i am and not for what i became.

may mga close friends na rin akong dumaan. i must say sila'y dumaan lang they never stayed. my patience is heaven length but i would always assert my thought if it's beyond my beliefs. not to contradict but for them to consider.

i strongly opposed when they say im a bigot. i am definitely not. i am open minded and had always been a shock absorber to other people. i dislike hypocrites!

i must say that those who passed by me had left for good. they realized that being true to yourself regardless of who you dealt with had always been benificial in dealing with others. but i strongly opposed when labeled as masama ang ugali or di marunong makisama. we have our own lives. friend or not, we set our own set of standards and firewall between us. we set where our goals are, our priorities and our aspirations. but if friendship leads to none of the above, then might as well stay away from those people.

i have a different notion when it comes to "friendship". a true friend stays with you when your down. covers you when your at risk. a friend knows what makes you angry and what uplifts your spirit. and a true friend scolds you when you'r wrong and gives you options not don'ts and don'ts.

i'm not choosy to people. i can stoop to any level. i can relate to any kind. but i hate backstabbers. i'd rather prefer to be stabbed infront than from behind. i am candid. i'll spoke with ideals and principle when necessary and i can be subjective when situation requires it.

"if i were and animal, i would be a dog. I can be very loyal and friendly yet very cunning and mischievous when situation requires it!"

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